You're about to hit the hay after a wonderful day with your lady or a long day at work. And, of course, she's on your mind.
Since she can't be right there next to you where you can cuddle and kiss her goodnight, why not surprise the light of your life with a romantic goodnight text message for her?
You want to say more than just, “Goodnight babe, sleep well,” but it's bedtime, you're tired, and it's hard to be clever late at night. That's why we've crafted these good night texts to her that you can make your own.
How Do I Say Goodnight to a Girl Over Text?
An in-person “goodnight” is optimal but not always possible. And if it's late, you may be concerned you'll awaken her if you call. Plus, there's something intimate and sexy about sending a text message she can read while curled up in bed.
So what do you need to consider before you write that message and hit send? Here are some thoughts:
- Be sure the message matches where you are in the relationship. Too gushy, and it may be a turn-off. Too straightforward, and she may wonder if you really like her.
- Consider your words carefully. Read the text as though you were receiving it from her. Is there anything that could be misconstrued in a negative way?
- Don't make it overly long. She may be ready to hit the hay and a long text can make her feel like she needs to converse back.
- Speak from the heart. Does the message sound the way you speak and reflect the words you'd normally say?
Keeping these suggestions in mind, here are dozens of sweet goodnight texts to choose from.
103 Goodnight Texts for Her
Whether your wanting to be sweet, cute, wordy, or romantic, we've got you covered with a variety of goodnight sayings for her.
Read through these text messages to see which suits your mood and feelings.
Or you can mix ideas from several of these texts for her to craft a personalized thought.
Sweet Goodnight Texts for Her
1. Even when we are apart, I’m never without you. Sleep well, my darling.
2. I used to have trouble falling asleep, but now I sleep soundly knowing that you are my forever. I love you.
3. I miss brushing my teeth by your side, reading next to each other, and holding you as I fall asleep. You make the little things exciting. Good night, sleep tight.
4. As I get ready for bed, I keep getting distracted by how grateful I am to have you. Just wanted to let you know that. Sweet dreams, lovely.
5. I hope your day was as beautiful as you are. I hope your dreams are as peaceful as I feel knowing I have you in my life. I love you.
6. I love you more and more every day. I think of you every night. Sending you all of my love.
7. You have graced me with more joy than I could have ever hoped for. I am so lucky to know you. Sleep tight. I love you always.
8. You are the best girlfriend that anyone could ever dream of. Sometimes, I think I must be dreaming because you are so perfect.
9. Tonight was lovely. You are lovely. Sleep well.
10. You were the first thought I had this morning, and I still haven’t stopped thinking about you. I love you and goodnight!
11. Once my life became a dream, I’ve stopped dreaming of a better life. You are a dream come true.
12. Goodnight my love. Rest easy and dream sweetly. I love you more than anything.
13. Have a restful night’s sleep. I dream of tomorrow, as it feels so far away without you here.
14. My darling, before I go to sleep, I wanted to say that I love you so much. Even when we are apart, you should never go to bed without knowing how loved you are.
15. I wish to hold you as you drift into sleep and kiss you goodnight. I am sending you all of my love through this text.
16. It’s so rare to find someone as generous, gorgeous, and smart as you. Goodnight, sleep tight.
17. Tonight was the most fun I’ve had in forever. I’m going to be thinking about it until I see you again. Have a good night, and sleep well!
18. Whenever I feel far from you, I look out of my window and remember we are standing under the same moon and stars. Good night, I love you.
19. Look out the window, and find the brightest star you can see. In my eyes, you shine even more brilliant than that. Good night darling.
20. Sitting in my bed, smiling like an idiot thinking about our date tonight. I can’t wait to see you again. You’re something else. Sweet dreams.
21. Being away from you is the hardest thing I’ve done in a long time. I can’t wait to be home again and sleeping next to you. Good night, sweetie.
22. The stars are so lucky to get a glimpse of your sparkle tonight. You’re beautiful, and somehow you’re mine. Wow. Goodnight my love.
23. Remember how amazing our last night together was? Me too. I keep that memory with me every night as I fall asleep.
24. Before I say goodnight, I wanted you to know that I find a new thing to love about you every time we see each other.
25. I know you were nervous about today. I hope everything went well. Sleep tight; everything will be okay. I love you.
26. Thinking about how stunning you must look right now. Wish I was there. Good night, babe.
27. You are a rare gift to this Earth. Gifts are meant to be cherished. I cherish you, my love. Sweet dreams!
28. I must have a guardian angel looking out for me, if I managed to find you. Sleep tight.
29. You are so damn beautiful. Not just the way you look, but in every way. I can't stop thinking about you. I hope I can sleep!
30. I know I told you goodnight already, but I couldn't turn off the light without telling you what a special woman you are. How did I get so lucky?
Cute Goodnight Texts for Her
31. Wish you could see how cute I look in my retainer and broken reading glasses. Of course, I’m not nearly as cute as you. Goodnight beautiful!
32. Don’t worry about the monsters under your bed. Even from afar, I’ll protect you. Sweet dreams!
33. Even if you don’t feel 100 percent right now, I love you a million percent. Sleep tight. Tomorrow will be better. I love you.
34. Thinking about becoming a betting man, because man, am I lucky to have you. Good night sweet pea!
35. I wish I could be there to admire you in all your pajama glory. You are so beautiful. Good night!
36. You’re amazing. I’m amazed to know you. I love you so much.
37. I can’t fall asleep without telling you how much I love you. All the way to the moon and back. That’s how much.
38. I’m not the best at poetic writing, but you are more beautiful than any poem I could ever write. Good night, love.
39. I wish I could stay up all night holding you. I’ll be home soon. I love you.
40. I hope you fall gently into sleep, as I fell hard in love with you. Good night, sweet dreams.
41. The new episode of our favorite show came out tonight. Saving it to watch with you! That’s how much I love you. Have a good sleep!
42. Sending you a big hug and a kiss through this message. Goodnight light of my life!
43. See you in our dreams tonight, my love.
44. It made me so happy to see you today. I’ll think about you long after I fall asleep.
45. When I have a tough day, you never fail to make it better. Thank you for being you. I love you!
46. Good night, baby. Draw a bath, have a glass of wine, and relax. You deserve it!
47. Even though my day was hectic, I thought of you every minute. Through the good times and bad, you are everything to me. Goodnight!
48. As you sleep with millions of stars between us, know that we will be together soon. Goodnight, my love.
49. Sleep tight. Angels always rest at night. I love you.
50. I have a hard time not falling asleep without you here and a hard time waking up from dreams of you. I can’t wait to sleep soundly with you by my side.
51. Is it stupid that I still get all tongue-tied when I'm with you? Just seeing you makes my heart race with happiness. Sleep well beautiful lady.
52. Ok, so I got home and was thinking about you so much that I completely forgot to brush my teeth before bed. But I won't forget tomorrow because your kiss tonight deserves another.
53. Is it too soon to ask you for another date? I know I'm not playing it cool, but who cares? You are amazing, and I can't wait to see you again.
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54. Once upon a time, a beautiful princess rescued me. Her castle was her heart. Her land was our love. Her beauty was inside and out. I’m living a fairytale come true, but I am no knight. I’m just lucky, and I will work every day to deserve your royalty. Good night, my princess. Sweet dreams, and check for a pea under the mattress!
55. Before I go to sleep, I usually count sheep. Tonight, I’ll count the ways I love you. I would write them all here, but there is a message limit on infinity. What I can say is that there are no words that adequately describe how you deserve to be loved. I will try every day to be what you deserve. There must be some human level for infinity. If there is, I’ll find some way to break it. Good night, baby.
56. My dear, every minute we are away from each other is another moment I hold you close to my heart. I hope your dreams are full of beauty and light. Have a sweet journey into sleep. We will be together again soon. I love you. Good night.
57. Before I say goodnight, I just wanted to tell you how grateful I am for everything you do for me. I don’t say this often enough, but you make my life infinitely better. Your smile warms up a cold day. Your eyes send clouds away. Your laugh could calm the strongest storm. Your heart leaves me breathless. I would do anything for you. You are the best (girlfriend/wife) in the world. I love you. Now I can say goodnight! Sleep tight.
58. Today wasn’t easy, because I knew that I wasn’t coming home to you. Tonight it will be easier, knowing I’ll see you tomorrow. I hope your day was better than mine, and your dreams are even better than that. Sleep soundly. We’ll be together before you know it! Goodnight!
59. I’m so in love with you. I can’t stop thinking about all the things I want to experience with you, all the places I want to explore together, and all the memories we’ve yet to make. I’m so excited to take this journey with you, hand in hand. You are my everything, baby. You are my future. I sleep better now that I’ve found you. Good night, love.
60. Trees are greener with you around. The sun shines brighter, gleaming onto every rock and patch of Earth. The sky becomes so blue and so full it could burst, raining down nothing but my love for you. Birds’ songs sound sweeter, and they tune to the beauty of your voice. The moon nods at us with a smile, knowing it can rest easy because I will be your light in the darkness, and you will be mine. When you’re away from me, the wind whispers your name to call me home. Dream sweetly, love.
61. Some people say perfection is impossible, but they must not know you. They would recognize perfection if they ever met you because you are incomparable. I thank my lucky stars every day for showing me the impossible and sending you to me. And I thank you for loving me. Goodnight, baby.
62. You are sleeping now, but I wanted you to wake up knowing that I fell asleep, replaying memories of my favorite moments with you in my head. I think of your smile, of the times you made me laugh, of your voice, and I hope those memories will carry you into my dreams. I can’t wait to be near you and to kiss you goodnight. For now, this I love you will have to do. Goodnight, darling.
63. When you are home, I will make you your favorite dinner. Then, we can cuddle up on the couch to our show before I whisk you away to the bedroom. For now, I will dream of that moment and all the moments we’ve had like it. The times we spend alone together mean everything to me. I’m so excited to see you. Sleep well. I love you.
64. Before you go to sleep, I want you to know five things that are amazing about you (and there are so many). 1. You're drop-dead gorgeous. 2. You are the most kind-hearted person I know. 3. You make me want to be a better man. 4. You are so funny and smart that I have to work to keep up. 5. The dinner you made tonight was award-winning. Thank you for being you. Sleep well my love.
Romantic Goodnight Texts for Her
65. I can barely fall asleep, as my mind is flooded with thoughts of you. But I’m not worried, as I’m sure my thoughts will drift into dreams.
66. As you fall asleep, the birds are resting to serenade you in the morning for me. Sleep tight. I love you.
67. You are unlike anyone else. You are my perfect match. How did fate work so well for me? I love you. Good night.
68. As I fall asleep, I hold my hand to my heart, hoping to feel our love. But then, I realize my love for you isn’t something I can touch. I hope to hold you and feel your touch again soon.
69. As our love grows, the easier it is to spend a night alone. That’s because I’m falling asleep with the absolute certainty of a life forever with you. What’s one night alone compared to the thousands we will spend together.
70. I can’t get into bed before sending you a goodnight text. It won’t be a good night unless I tell you I love you one more time. I love you!
71. I used to think I wasn’t a romantic. Once I met you, I knew that I’d be sending you mushy good night texts for the rest of my life.
72. You astound me, and I will work every day of my life to deserve your love for me. Goodnight, baby.
73. I love you more today than I did yesterday. And I’m sure I’ll send the same text tomorrow. Goodnight, my darling.
74. Our love must weigh more than any human could hold, but loving you feels like it weighs nothing. No matter the hardships we may go through, loving you is the most natural thing I’ve ever done.
75. If you have a nightmare, call my name, and I will come running to carry you away from darkness into the light of dreams. Goodnight, I love you.
76. I hope sleeping without me is the hardest thing you had to deal with today. Rest well. I love you.
77. Like the sun in the morning or the moon at night, our love rises before and after every sleep. I rest well knowing I’ll wake up loving you even more.
78. You may be asleep, but my love for you is burning bright. My dreams of you stoke the embers of my feelings for you. Good night, sweet pea.
79. A special woman like you deserves a special evening. Treat yourself to something nice! Relax and have sweet dreams tonight.
80. You have brought magic into my life. You've entirely caught me in your spell. I love you, good night!
81. The best way to start my day is telling you good morning. The best way to end my day is by wishing you good night. I can’t wait until we are together again, and our nights never end and blend into a forever morning.
82. I am jealous of the sun, for it rises and sees you. I am jealous of the moon because it tucks you into bed. They are jealous of me because I have your love. Thank you for loving me.
83. Step outside and listen to the wind. If you listen closely enough, you can hear it carrying the sounds of my heart yearning for you.
84. See you in dreamland, my beautiful queen. I love you more than you know and will tell you again in my dreams and once more when I wake.
85. You’re more stunning every day. Goodnight, beautiful.
86. I can feel your love from miles away. My heart is beating out of my chest, as the sounds of the night form your name.
87. Have a peaceful sleep. You've been working so hard. I’m so proud of you, baby. Goodnight!
88. Let me tell you a secret: I have never loved someone as much as I love you. I don’t think I ever will.
89. You are so special to me. I want to spend the rest of my life making you happy. Sleep tight.
90. I fall asleep knowing that I am loved by the best woman I have ever met. I can’t believe I get to say that. No words.
91. I hope tomorrow is as bright and shining as you are!
92. I wish I was your pillow so that I could feel your head resting gently on me. I miss your warmth.
93. We have had thousands of yesterdays, and we have millions of tomorrows, but I can’t let today pass without wishing you sweet dreams and saying I love you.
94. I was just thinking — will you run away to Paris with me? Or Amsterdam? Or Milan? Or anywhere? I just want to be with you in the most romantic place possible.
95. I am almost breathless with love for you. I can't sleep, and I can't stop thinking of you. Tell me goodnight and that you love me too so I can get some rest.
Funny Goodnight Texts for Her
96. Before you fall asleep, I wanted to ask, can you please come back over here? I miss you.
97. Wait. I just looked in the bed next to me, and you're not there. Something isn't right with the world. Come back to me my love.
98. I need you to slap the goofy grin off my face. Seriously. I can't stop smiling, and it's making it hard to sleep.
99. When I saw you standing there tonight, I almost broke into my happy dance. And you definitely don't want to see that. But I definitely want to see you again. Sleep well.
100. I want you to know that I am absolutely not envisioning you lying in your bed with your sweet face on the pillow. I'm also a known liar. Sleep tight beautiful.
101. You made me laugh so hard tonight that wine came out of my nose. I know that's not a pleasant sight, but I'll be cleaned up by tomorrow. Goodnight funny girl.
102. If I told you that I'm crazy about you, would you run away? If so, then I'm not crazy about you because I want you to stay forever.
103. What if, just for tonight, you held on to your pillow and pretended it was me? Then tomorrow night we'll send your pillow over her and I can replace it. Good idea?
Ready to write your own goodnight texts for her?
Saying goodnight is the perfect opportunity to show your girlfriend or partner that you are thinking of her.
You don’t have to be a poet to compose a sweet goodnight text for her. Inspire yourself with these ideas, and take a few moments to send a loving text to the special woman in your life.