There will always be moments when it feels like the world is crumbling around you, and you wonder if everything is all your fault.
What if I had done this? What if I never did that — where would I be?
Questions that focus on the past and the “could-have-been” feel paralyzing.
Although the past is fixed, it does contain lessons.
The future, however, holds all possibilities. If you wonder what to do when your life is a complete disaster, know that you possess tools and wisdom from your past to build a better future.
To help you access these tools, it’s useful to understand exactly why your life is so out of order.