33 Perfect Love Letters To Send To The Lady You Love

You know how much you love the special lady in your life, but when was the last time you sent a love letter to her to show her how much you care? 

Whether it’s new to you or something you frequently do, little notes from the heart are great for when you have a hard time expressing your feelings or want to go above and beyond your typical displays of affection

Either way, such a sweet gesture to make her feel loved and cherished is sure to melt her heart, at least a little.

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How to Write a Romantic Letter for Her

Want to write your lady a romantic letter but don’t want to be teased about how bad it turns out?

Welcome, friend. We’re here to help. 

In truth, writing romantic letters is a lot easier than many folks imagine. Stick to the five following tips, and you can’t go wrong.

  • Authenticity: Anyone with an ounce of kindness won’t criticize loving sentiments from the heart. And if a lady scoffs at your true emotions (so long as said feelings aren’t disrespectful), it may be time to step back and reconsider the relationship.
  • Personalization: Customized is better than generic when it comes to love letters. Squeeze in something personal to add your stamp.
  • Restrained: Sending short, cute texts and messages daily is fine. But if you’re constantly declaring undying love, you risk it becoming routine and meaningless. So spread out the “big love letters” to ensure they’re special and have an impact. 
  • Laudatory: Praise is the point! Be sure to add details about how awesome she is, not just how great the relationship is.

Love Letters For Her: 33 Beautiful Passages You Can Use

Following are 33 different I love you letters for her from the heart.

You can use one to make up after an argument, just because, or as a Valentine’s letter for her. 

Browse through them and choose one that resonates with you and feels real and true.

It’s okay to step outside your comfort zone a bit, but just make sure you really mean it.

Romantic Love Letters for Her

1. You are, without a doubt, the most wonderful thing in my life. I never dreamed I could feel about someone the way I do about you. You’re beautiful, sweet, kind, and caring, and I love you more every day. I can’t imagine a day without you, and I vow to make you feel as special as you make me feel. Thank you for making me the happiest person alive.

2. You always make me feel like there’s nothing you’d rather do than be with me. You listen when I talk, you make me feel worthy, and I can feel how much you care. You radiate love and warmth and kindness, and you make me want to be a better person. I am the luckiest man alive to get to be with you. Thank you for loving me, and thank you for being you.

3. If I haven’t told you lately that you’re a wonderful woman, that I’m so thankful to have you in my life, and that I love you more with each passing day – you are, and I am, and I do. I am beyond happy to call you mine, and I cherish every moment we share. I can’t wait to spend the rest of our lives together.  

woman opening envelope love letter for her

4. Even though things aren’t always perfect, I wouldn’t trade a single second of our life together–especially those moments when it’s just us. I love creating memories with you, I love talking with you, I love laughing with you, and I love simply being together. I love cuddling and holding each other and planning our future. You are an amazing woman–especially to me.

5. Your beauty is breathtaking. Your kindness is inspiring. Your love is astounding. I never thought I would be so lucky as to be with such a wonderful woman. I am grateful every day to have you in my life. Nothing in this world could make me love you less, and I can’t wait to see what our future holds.

6. I ask myself every day what I did to deserve such an incredible woman. The way you look at me, the way you kiss me, and the way I feel when I’m with you make me want to hold you close and never let go. I feel so alive when we’re together. I can’t believe I’m so lucky to have found my soulmate. 

7. have such a wonderful way of bringing joy to my life and making me fall more in love with you every day. I want to spend the rest of my days showing you just how much you mean to me and how much I love you. You are everything I ever wanted and everything I’ll ever need. I love you with all of my heart.

Love Letter to Make Her Fall for You

8. I’ve been trying to find the right words to tell you how much you mean to me, but nothing seems good enough or unique enough for someone so wonderful as you–someone so beautiful, kind, caring, and gracious. I decided the best way to confess that I’ve fallen for you is to simply say it–I love you.

9. I want you to know how much I enjoy our time together. You are so awesome to be around–you’re sweet and funny and kind, not to mention beautiful. My favorite days are when I get to see you, and I spend our days apart wishing we were together. I think about you constantly and can’t wait to get to know you better.

10. I’m not very good at expressing my feelings, but I want you to know I’m having a great time getting to know you. I admire your kindness and compassion toward others and the way you light up a room when you enter. Your smile makes me smile. Your laughter makes me happy. Your presence excites me. You and I are the perfect “us.”

11. Do you have any idea how incredible you are? I am truly a better person because I know you. Your kindness and compassion are contagious, and I think the world needs more people like you. You’re so easy to be around, too. I’ve really enjoyed getting to know you and look forward to knowing you even more

12. There’s something about you that makes it nearly impossible to think about anything else when we’re not together. Just the thought of you makes me smile. Knowing I’m going to see you brightens my day. I talk all the time about you with my friends and at work. I’m having a fantastic time getting to know you and want you to know I think you’re really special.

man writing note at desk love letter for her

13. Have I told you yet how incredibly awesome I think you are? Or that I think about you all the time? And that I haven’t felt this way about anyone in a very long time? Because you are absolutely amazing. Thoughts of you fill my head all day and night, and I’m, without a doubt, falling in love with you.

Love Letters for Wife

14. I can’t begin to tell you how much I love you, how happy you make me, and how grateful I am to be married to you. Even after all this time, I love you as much as ever. I’m not great at expressing it, but I want you to know I appreciate everything you do. You are an amazing woman with a loving heart, and I’m proud to share my life with you.  

15. How on earth did I get so lucky to have you as my wife? You are beautiful inside and out, and you continue to amaze me every single day. Our years together have been the best years of my life, and I can’t imagine being without you. There’s no one in the world I’d rather brave life with.

16. When I think back over our time together, I can’t help but think of how far we’ve come. We’ve certainly had our share of ups and downs. But we always come out on top–stronger than ever and better for having faced it. I love that we continue to grow together and can overcome anything. I love that you are who I get to live life with.

17. The love we have is so special, and I absolutely adore everything about you. Even after all this time together, my love for you continues to grow. Thank you for loving me, thank you for putting up with my bad habits, and thank you for sharing your life with me. You make me feel whole.

18. There’s something about you that continues to mesmerize me. From the moment I wake up in the morning until the moment I go to bed at night, you are the light in my life. You are what keeps me going. I love our life together and the love I feel every moment I’m with you. Thank you for being my wife.

19. You’ve seen me at my best and my worst, yet you continue to love me. You always stand by me when I’m feeling down and support me when I need it. It amazes me how you always know how to make me feel better. You always have the right words or know when just to let me be. I love you more than ever and feel blessed to have a wife like you.

20. Of all the choices I have made in my life, the best one by far was asking you to be my wife. Not a day goes by that I don’t realize how lucky I am to have you. I love that we still lift each other up, support each other, and hold each other accountable. My love for you continues to grow stronger every day.  

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Love Letters for Girlfriend

21. When I think about my life before I met you, it seems so empty and meaningless now. I thought I was happy before we were together, but the truth is I had no idea what real happiness even was. You have brought new meaning into my life. You are the most amazing woman I’ve ever met, and I want to love you forever. 

22. You are the most wonderful thing that’s ever happened to me. The loving way you treat everyone you come across is inspiring, and you make me want to be like that too. You make the world a better place and me a better person. I love you and feel blessed to have you as my girlfriend. 

man writing not with pen love letter for her

23. I hope you know how much you mean to me and that I will always be here for you. You can count on me in good times and bad. I want to spend the rest of my life showing you how special you are and how much I love you. You are my best friend, my partner, my soulmate–forever and always.

24. I love you so much, baby. I continue to fall more and more in love with you every day, and I know in my heart that we will be together forever. I’m so excited to grow as a couple, and I can’t wait to see what our future holds. Thank you for loving me and for letting me love you.

25. I didn’t use to believe in love. Or at least I didn’t believe in love for myself. Then I met you. You showed me what it was to love and be loved. You opened my eyes to a whole new world, a world in which I feel like a whole new person. Now I will spend the rest of my days showing you how grateful I am for you and how blessed I am to have you in my life.

26. When I look into your eyes, I see the rest of my life with you. I see joy and happiness, love and laughter, good times, and fond memories. I know things won’t always be perfect, but I also know nothing in this world can change the way I feel about you. I know that whatever we’re faced with, we will get through together. 

27. Never have I known someone like you–someone who could be so kind, caring, grateful, and affectionate. You make me feel like the most special person in the world, and I hope I make you feel the same. I want you to know you are the love of my life, and I am so grateful to be with you.

Deep Love Letters For Her

28. To My Sweetie: I’m not an academic and have never pretended otherwise. So forgive me if this letter sounds a bit dim. But I wanted to express my care, respect, and adoration by attempting to put feelings into words. Who knows, maybe 50 years from now, you can pull it out of a box to show our grandchildren. I love you every which way and cannot wait to spend decades by your side.

29. To the Lady Who Turned My World Around for the Better: Thank you for everything you are and do. My life has improved tenfold since our fated paths crossed (thank god!). I know I can be an impossible grump at times, and for that, I’m deeply sorry. I promise to continue working on my faults and learning how to be the best possible [boyfriend/husband] to you. Till then, bless you for putting up with my journey and loving me unconditionally every step of the way.

30. My Sweetheart: I’m not a man of letters, and I’d never offend you by trying to scribe a poem. (The horror!) But I want you to know you’re special, full of intelligence, bravery, creativity, and kindness. In my mind’s eye, you’re proof that miracles exist. Thank you for choosing me.

31. To the Woman Who Made Me a Better Person: Before you walked into my life, I was a reckless renegade up to no good. But they say when you meet “the one,” your focus changes, you calm down, and life detours onto a better trajectory. (Bonus: I now know how to dress, thanks to your help.) Because of you, I have hope and know our future is bright. Together, we can conquer the world. Here’s to sharing space and energy for years to come.

32. Darling: You may say I’m exaggerating when I talk about the sun and sky parting the moment our eyes met, but that’s how I felt. I finally understood love at first sight. Your warmth, generosity, and effervescent spirit are a beacon. I must have done something heroic in my last life to land a lady like you. 

33. My Dearest Honey: We just survived a life hurricane, and heaven knows we’ve been knocked around. I’ll admit: There were times I had doubts we’d make it through. But you were always there to pick up the pieces and keep us forging ahead. You were the captain and crew, and your strength will never cease to amaze me. I love you more than a note could convey. You are everything good and more.

Use these sweet love letters as a unique way to share your loving feelings with your special someone or to show her how much you care about her.

You can keep the letter as is or tweak it to create something more personal or meaningful. Either way, she will feel loved and appreciated, her heart will melt, and she will cherish it–and you!

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