How do you know if people are talking about you behind your back?
And once you find out they are, what can you do about it?
It’s one thing if they’re planning a surprise (one you’ll like).
It’s a very different thing if they’re saying things they know you wouldn’t like. Not cool.
You want to know why they would do such a thing.
What kind of person is friendly to your face but badmouths you behind your back?
Let’s start with that question.