Write A Thoughtful And Romantic Love Letter To Your Crush Using Our 13 Examples

When you’re deep in crushland, the world is a bright and shiny place.

Yes, being in love (or even just like) can make everything rosy – or at least appear to be.

Does your crush know how wildly happy and “in-crush” you are? 

No better time than right now to give them a clue.

Writing a letter to your crush helps you express all the butterflies and emotions that come with having feelings for someone. 

But what (and how much) should you say?

That's where we come in!

We've created sample love letters to use as a guide (or to copy outright – we don’t mind) for writing a letter to your crush. 

Whether you want to keep it short and simple or express your deepest, most passionate feelings, our dear crush letters can help you find the right romantic words to spill the beans.

Should I Write a Love Letter to My Crush?

When you have feelings for someone, it can be hard to decide the best way to express them, especially early on.

Should you reveal them by flirting? Should you be bold and ask them out on a date right away?

Writing a love letter to your crush might be a bit premature. But an “I’m kinda into you” letter is one of the best approaches.

  • It gives you time to work out how you feel. If you don't have the perfect words, you can rewrite the note a few times until you get it just right.
  • It has an old-fashioned charm. People don't receive hand-written notes very often these days, so it definitely has a romantic appeal. Even a digital letter, such as an email, has a stately charm.
  • You'll give your crush time to process what you’ve shared. Sometimes, people feel put on the spot when another person expresses romantic feelings. With a letter, the object of your crush has time to think about it. You allow them to respond in their own time.
  • Your letter can be a keepsake for your crush. Receiving any letter is special; however, getting one expressing tender feelings and admiration can be treasured forever (assuming the recipient reciprocates).

Even if your letter isn't reciprocated, it could still be a special moment.

You'll know that you've expressed your true feelings and taken a chance on love. And what better chance is there to take?

13 Example Love Letters for a Crush

Not sure what to say to your crush? It's time to dive in and unleash your feelings on the page. Below is our list of love letter examples in four different categories to get you started.

Use one of our sample letters to someone you like and see how they respond!

Sweet Letters to Your Crush

1. A Poetic Ode to My Crush

Dearest, you are the sunlight that brightens my world.

Your beauty and grace surpass what I've ever seen or heard.

Your smile warms my soul; it's like a flame against the cold.

My heart beats faster when I think of your face so bold.

You captivate me with your charm each and every day.

I'm grateful for the moments we get to spend together, I say.

Your presence puts a spell on me as no other thing does;

As long as you're around, I'm in love with life's buzz.

So if you ever feel lost or confused, just remember this:

I'll make it better with a tender, loving kiss.

2. A Nostalgic Glimpse of Our Past

Dear [name],

Over the past few months, I've come to learn so much about you. Every moment is precious and memorable. I still remember the day we first met; it was like a dream come true. You wore that stunning outfit that has become my favorite, and you looked beautiful in the afternoon sunlight.

From that day onwards, our friendship has blossomed into something I cherish, and it’s grown stronger each day we've been together. We've shared moments of laughter, joy, and tears of sadness and frustration. You've been there for me through the good and bad, and I'm so grateful to have you in my life.

You are my beloved friend and confidante; you will always be in my heart, no matter what life throws our way.

Are you ready to make new memories with me?

Perhaps they can be ones filled with love and understanding. Maybe we will take our relationship to new levels. Either way, I'll never forget what you mean to me.

3. You're the Coolest

Hey you,

Did you know how absolutely, undeniably cool you are? It's truly inspiring how you always manage to be so calm and collected, no matter what happens. You never seem to let anything get to you—not even the little things that would otherwise make me go crazy.

Your aura is so chill, like a soothing balm for my soul. I could spend hours looking into your eyes, feeling the calmness that radiates from within. You have a unique way of seeing the world; you can understand how everything fits together by looking at things from a unique perspective.

The way you carry yourself makes me want to be equally chill and happy. Whenever I'm feeling down, all I have to do is look at you, and suddenly everything seems brighter.

Thank you for being you and sharing some of your coolness. I hope we can always be together as friends or more—no matter what the future holds. So let me know if you are interested in the “more.” If so, let’s be cool and happy together. 

3. I Have a Secret


I have a secret…I'm into you.

Yes, it's true! I can't keep quiet about my feelings any longer. You may already suspect that I have a big, fat crush on you, and I can't help but smile whenever I think of you.

My heart beats faster when I hear your name. But when I see your face, my world lights up, and all I can think about is how lucky I am to have you in my life.

I'm so happy just to talk with you—to laugh and share stories. You make me feel alive and warm inside; I'm on top of the world when I'm with you.

So here's my secret: I want to be more than friends. I don't know what lies ahead, but I do know that when we are together, it feels like nothing else matters.

Let me know if you feel the same way—I promise not to tell anyone!

A Letter to My Crush About My Feelings

4. Every Time You Walk Into a Room

I just wanted to let you know…

That every time you walk into a room, I feel like time stops. It's as if a soft light shines down on you, and your radiance and beauty blind me. I'm not often starstruck by someone, but you're star-material, and you shine so brightly.

It makes my pulse quicken and my heart race when I see you. You have this unique way of making me feel like I'm the only person in the room. It's like time stands still, and all that matters is us; it feels electric, almost magical.

I don't know exactly what draws me to you, but I can’t ignore these feelings, and I am curious to explore where they could take us.

If you feel the same pull toward me, let’s explore what’s next for us. If your feelings match mine, I will be the happiest person in the world.

Love from,

Your Secret Admirer

5. You Brighten My Rainy Days

On the coldest, dreariest, and rainiest days, you always manage to be a ray of sunshine. Just the thought of you brightens my mood and makes me smile.

Your presence is like a warm embrace that wraps itself around me and comforts me when I'm feeling lost. Your words have healing power; they make everything seem okay, no matter what.

I feel appreciated and accepted for who I am when I'm with you. You have always been there for me, supporting and believing in me when no one else did. You are my secret weapon against a bad day—just your energy can lift the gloomiest of moods.

I hope my presence helps lighten the stresses of daily life and brings you the peace you give me. I want us to be there for each other as more than friends. Do you feel the same way? If so, we could be brilliant beacons of light for each other—no matter what storms we're facing.


Your Loyal Friend and Admirer

6. It's Hard for Me To Express Myself

Usually, my feelings are sealed up tightly. In a world where people always express themselves, I prefer to keep things close to the vest.

But with you, it's different. I can let go and share what's inside me without fear of judgment or rejection. You're the only one who truly knows me—all my thoughts, hopes, dreams, and fears.

I want to tell you how much you mean to me, but words don't always come easily. I want to show you, with my actions, how much impact you have had on my life and how I feel about you.

I don't know what lies ahead for us, but I know that when we are together, it feels like no one else matters. That's why I'm dedicated to letting you know just how special you are to me in whatever way I can.

Right now, that means opening my heart and revealing my deeper feelings for you. I don’t want to lose your friendship, but I can’t continue to pretend that’s all I feel for you. Do you feel the same?

Your loved one.

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7. Three Reasons Why You're The One

Let's cut to the chase; you're the best, and here are three reasons why:

First, you make me laugh. When I'm down and out, you're always there to bring a smile to my face with your silly jokes and puns.

Second, you are so smart and charming, and did I mention gorgeous?

Third, you're an incredible listener. You let me talk and express myself without judgment or interruption.

So, I’m wondering how you feel about me. If you have some reasons why you like me too, then maybe we should consider getting together with all of our good reasons.

What do you think?

8. Let's Go On An Adventure

Life's an adventure, and I'd love to share it with you as your “more than a friend” person. I can already tell the journey would be a wild one if we began it together.

We can explore the world around us, visit places we've only heard about in stories, and create new memories as we go.

So what do you say: Shall we make this journey together?

I am ready to take the plunge, and I hope you are, too,

Here’s to sharing the adventure and sealing it with a kiss.

9. Our Connection Is Electric

The moment I saw you, we had an undeniable energy and attraction. It felt like a spark of electricity connected our souls, and I knew immediately there was something special between us.

I still feel this force every time we are together—it's like a magnet that draws us closer and closer. It's hard to put what I'm feeling into words, but all I know is that it's real and powerful.

Don't be afraid of this unexplainable connection—embrace it. Let's explore what lies ahead together,

Your Friend and Perhaps New Lover.

10. Love Is In The Air

Is it the change of the seasons, or is it being around you that makes me feel the excitement of something new?

I can feel the intensity of your presence from miles away—it's like a gentle breeze that caresses my skin. It brings peace to my soul and joy to my heart.

Are you feeling the same way too? If so, let's take a step forward to explore the next season of our relationship. I know the future holds something special for us, and I'm ready to discover what it is.

Deep Letter for a Crush

11. Let's Make Our Own Destiny

Life can be unpredictable—we never know what tomorrow will bring, but that doesn't mean we should stop dreaming. Instead of waiting for fate to take its course, why don't we make our own destiny?

It's time to step outside our comfort zones and take more risks. We'll never know what lies ahead if we stay in the same place. Let's be brave enough to find out if we are meant to be together.

Do you need a partner to help you achieve your goals? I'm here to support you and journey beside you, no matter what. I want to make your biggest dreams come true, but I can only grant them if you let me in.

Take a leap of faith with me, and let's find out what the future holds for us.

Your Devoted Crush.

12. What Can We Become If We Come Together?

I look into your eyes, and I can feel the potential we have together. Our individual strengths come together to form something bigger and better than we could achieve alone.

So why not take a chance on what we can become if we ignite this spark we both feel?

Let's explore the depths of what our relationship could be. I'm willing to invest my time, energy, and heart into this journey—all I ask is for you to do the same.

If you are ready to take a leap of faith with me, let's make our dreams come alive together. In five years, we will be glad that we took this chance, and in 50 years, we will look back at our legacy. Are you ready to take this leap with me?

Your Love and Partner.

13. I've Never Felt This Way About Anyone Before

I'm not sure if I can ever express this in words, but what I feel for you is like nothing I've ever encountered before.

It's as if every cell in my body is alive with an energy that only manifests when we are together. You feel like an old friend, even though our relationship is new. I can trust you, I feel safe with you, and I know you’ll always have my best interests at heart.

I know it may seem soon to say, but I may want to spend the rest of my life with you. I know we aren't ready to make that decision yet, but we will only really know if it's right by taking one step in front of the other on the path of love and commitment.

So, will you take this walk with me? I would be delighted if you said yes.

Your Loving Admirer.

Final Thoughts

No matter what letter you choose, make sure to write it from your heart and include personal touches that make it unique to you and your crush. 

A letter written from the heart will help you express your feelings in a genuine way that, hopefully, will lead to a new romance.