51 Steamy And Flirty Text Messages To Get Her In The Mood

You’ve both been busy, lately.

It’s gotten harder to connect and spend quality time together.

So, when you know you’ll both have some time for a hot date or at least an hour to enjoy each other’s company, you’re all in.

All that’s left is to set the mood.

And since you’re not the only one invited to this party, you want to make sure she’s as interested as you are.

When you can’t be in the same room together, some hot text messages might just do the trick.

How Do You Get a Girl in the Mood Over Text?

If you’re asking yourself, “What can I text to turn her on?” you’re taking too narrow an approach.

You don’t have to send her a steady stream of texts alluding to whatever sexy shenanigans you have in mind.

In fact, don’t. Don’t do that. There’s a better way.

man smiling at desk on phone text messages to get her in the mood

Instead of focusing on words to turn her on, aim for words that do the following:

  • Make her smile
  • Remind her she’s on your mind
  • Show her what you love about her

The best way to dial up the romance is to show her why you see no one else when she’s around.

She’s your person, and you’re hers.

Build on that. 

51 Text Messages to Get Her in the Mood

We’ve collected 51 text messages that will turn her on, whether they’re sexy, sweet, flirty, funny, or just thoughtful.

There’s more than one way to get on the same page.

1. Everything reminds me of you. Can’t wait to see you later.

2. Trying to work, here, but I can’t stop thinking about you.

3. I’ve been brainstorming ideas for our next date. Can’t wait to share them with you!

4. Daydreaming about you is my new favorite thing. But reality with you is better.

5. I love talking to you. Nothing is off-limits or awkward. You’re every bit as good at challenging me as you are at listening.

6. Whatever happens, I trust you to have my back. I hope you can trust me to do the same.

7. All I really want right now is to be alone with you somewhere. Whatever happens happens. I’m all in.

8. I feel most alive when I’m with you.

9. Just the thought of you is enough to make me smile in the middle of whatever I’m doing.

10. Until I kissed you, I had no idea it could be so much fun. Looking forward to later.

11. Can you guess what I’m thinking about right now? (Spare no detail.)

12. It’s a good thing we don’t work together. I’d get nothing done. I’m already having a hard time not thinking about what I want to do with you.

13. Until I met you, I never thought I had a one track mind. Must be your corrupting influence.

14. Just a quick note to remind you I’m in love with you. I look forward to reminding you in person.

15. Every time I listen to music, I can picture you dancing to it.

16. All I want for my lunch break is a picnic somewhere with you — ideally with a tent and a sleeping bag built for two.

17. All you have to do is walk into the room and everyone else disappears. Or I wish they would.

18. It hit me just how ready I am to do something crazy and risk everything — as long as I get to do it with you.

19. Here I was, comfortably numb, until you came along and woke me up. Now I want to wake up to you every day.

20. Speaking about waking up to you, can we go back and explore what comes before that?

21. I trust you, your judgement, and your heart more than anyone's.

22. One random text from you is enough to get me smiling like a lovesick idiot.

23. I have a surprise for you this evening. Prepare to be spoiled. 😉

24. You seemed distracted this morning. Is there anything I can do to make your day better?

25. That smirk of yours comes to mind and turns me inside out whenever I think of you (which is often).

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26. You don't know how many times I've thought of kissing you so far today. We have some catching up to do.

27. I'm not so weak that I'd fall into your arms the instant you call my name. You'd have to actually be here for that to work on me.

28. I cannot wait to be alone with you again. How soon could we make that happen?

29. When I picture my future, I want you in it. For one thing, it looks way less sexy without you.

30. Every time with you feels like the first time — in the best possible way.

31. Once again, thoughts of you have made it easier to get through the toughest parts of my day.

32. Would you be my special guest tonight? I have made food. Now, all I need is the world's best company.

33. You're all I want to think about right now.

34. Ready for our hot date? I know I am!

35. In my dreams, you always look hot. In person, you look even hotter.

36. Just a quick text to let you know I need you in my life. You’re my favorite person.

37. In case I didn’t say it before, you look fantastic today — more beautiful every time I see you.

38. How do you manage to make me think and turn me on at the same time. It’s confusing, but I’m into it.

39. I’m picking up something good for us to enjoy for dinner tonight.

40. If we could go anywhere together — just the two of us — where would you want to go?

41. With you, I feel most like myself and also the person I want to be. You see the best in me. And I can’t look at you without thinking, “Wow. There she is!”

42. Life is too short to spend so much of my time in places where you aren’t.

43. I’m glad we didn’t meet until I knew what I wanted in my life. Otherwise, I might have missed out on the best thing that’s ever happened to me.

44. Some people try to stifle the light they see in others. But you take what little light you can find in me and make rainbows with it. I want to see what you see.

45. If I have faith in anything, it's that you were always meant to be part of my life. You've changed everything.

46. No matter what I'm going through, you're the person I feel most comfortable sharing it with.

47. I can't wait to see you and hear how your day is going. I'll let you pick the time and place.

48. Today I was talking to a friend about you, and I felt so proud (and something else), I wanted more than anything for you to be there. I can't wait to see you.

49. I love that I can talk to you about anything and you don't flinch or glaze over or check the time. And I love hearing you talk.

50. I love the way your mind works. I'm never bored with you.

51. I love watching you move. I swear you can find something to dance to in anything. It's magic.

Tips on Writing a Seductive Text

Ever thought of spicing things up with some flirty texts but didn't know where to start? Crafting a seductive text is an art form that can turn the heat up in your relationship or spark interest in someone new. But remember, the key is subtlety and respect. Here's how to do it right:

  • Keep it Playful: Start with something light and flirty. A playful tease can set the tone without going overboard.
  • Compliments are Key: Everyone loves feeling desired. Compliment something specific that you find attractive about them.
  • Use Suggestive Language: Implied naughtiness can be more tantalizing than being overly explicit. Let their imagination fill in the blanks.
  • Timing Matters: Send your text at a time when they can savor it, not when they're swamped with work or family duties.
  • Leave Them Wanting More: Don't spill all your desires at once. A hint of mystery keeps the conversation intriguing.

Remember, the goal is to make them smile and think of you fondly, not to make anyone uncomfortable. 

Final Thoughts

Now that you’ve looked through the list of text messages, which ones are you most likely to use? You know the woman in question better than we do, so you probably have some idea of which messages will be more effective with her.

And if the attraction between you is already strong, it shouldn’t take much to get you both on the same mental track. Still… it can’t hurt to mix it up and try new things together.

What will you try first?