You’ve probably heard some things about soul searching and getting in touch with your higher self.
But what does that even mean?
If you have a higher self, that must mean you have a lower self, too.
And it makes sense to get both parts of you working together as a team.
In order to do that, you have to know your whole self. And that means facing personal attributes you’d rather not think about.
Finding yourself generally starts at the bottom and often in the less socially acceptable parts of your personality. No one builds a house by starting on the roof.
There’s an order to these things for a reason.