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41 Fun Things To Do By Yourself

Do you ever feel compelled by social media and cultural pressures to be more social and outgoing?

Or do you take the time to find fun things to do alone?

Sometimes it appears the only way to be happy and fulfilled is to cram your schedule with social events and spend most of your waking hours with other people.

There's no doubt that we need relationships for our mental and emotional health.

Having a strong social network strengthens our confidence, adds joy to our lives, improves cognitive ability, and even helps us live longer according to research.

But there are times when we need to step back from our busy social lives to recharge, especially for those of us who are introverts.

You may also find yourself in situations when friends aren't available, and you have to spend some time alone.

But this isn't necessarily a bad thing.

In fact, what if you deliberately take some time to some activities alone and at your own pace?

Expressing Your Feelings Should Not Turn Into an Argument: 11 Ways to Share Emotions Without Fighting

by Ron Clendenin

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Sharing your innermost feelings with a loved one can be fraught with landmines.

One false step, and you could both wind up entrenched in your positions, lobbing hurtful words like grenades.

But it doesn't have to be this way.

With mindfulness, empathy, and a spirit of understanding, you can express your emotions without igniting an explosive clash.

We’re sharing some tips to help you open your heart in a healthy way, bring you closer together, and avoid painful, damaging arguments.

Do Affairs That Break Up A Marriage Last? Here’s What You Must Know

by Barrie Davenport

unhappy couple, do affairs that break up a marriage last

If you’re reading this, you’re probably wondering, “How long do affairs last after divorce?” or “Do affairs that end in marriage stand a chance?”

Maybe you’ve heard some of the reasons why affairs never last, but you’ve met a couple that might be an exception to that rule.

So, what is it about most affairs that dooms them from the beginning?

It helps to know why people cheat in the first place. Knowing what could be a trigger for you might help you protect yourself and your marriage.

Read on to learn nine things you need to know about affairs and why they end.

21 Heartbreaking Characteristics Of Emotionally Unavailable Men

by Barrie Davenport

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Being with an emotionally unavailable man can make a woman doubt herself and question whether or not her guy really trusts and loves her.

It's extremely painful to feel shut out by your partner and unable to connect on a deep and intimate level.

Most women want to be in a relationship in which they can fully express themselves and feel heard and understood.

They also want a man who is willing to share his emotions and show some vulnerability.

When he does this, a man is showing his woman that he trusts and cares for her enough to reveal his inner world.

When the woman doesn't judge or criticize when her guy opens up, he feels validated — and she feels loved and respected.

It's a win for both partners.

It’s Looking Like Your Relationship Is Over: 11 Signs It Probably Is

by Barrie Davenport

Maybe you've been together for a few years — or perhaps it's been several decades.

Whichever the case, things have changed, and you're toying with the idea of breaking up.

But you're unsure.

What if the relationship is just going through a phase?

What if the partnership is just moving into the more mature, less lusty stage (which is perfectly normal)?

What are the signs your long-term relationship is over?

Pull up a seat because we're unpacking it all below.