You're likely here because you are at your wits' end with someone who always plays the victim. The soul-sucking, mood-dampening, eye-roll-inducing behavior impacts your personal and professional life and can chip away at your own self-esteem.
If you try to help, you're attacking a victim. If you passively accept it, you're stuck in their rut. If you try to cut them off, you've victimized a victim.
Allow yourself one good scream at the top of your lungs, and let's dive into some strategies to help you with someone who plays the victim.