The specifics on what it means to be a lady are not something universally agreed upon.
But research (so much research) has turned up some general rules.
If you cringe every time someone shares their outdated ideas on how to be ladylike, you're not alone.
But it's encouraging to see so many people calling out the body-shaming and misogyny baked into many of the old rules.
To get some clarity, let's start with the question, “What is ladylike behavior?”
Then we can move on to the why and the how.