10 Unexpected Ways To Become A Happy Person

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Most people spend a lot of time being unhappy.

If you Google the research on happiness and how many people are happy, you’ll find that unhappy people outnumber the happy ones. The majority people in the U.S. (3 to 1) are unhappy with their work and in general.

Those statistics are daunting and sad. We have one opportunity to live our lives on this beautiful planet, and yet so many of us aren’t enjoying the adventure. In fact, many people find life difficult, unpleasant, or downright painful. But if you ask anyone what they long for most, it’s happiness. We all just want to be happy.

Life presents everyone with challenges and pain, so happiness can’t hinge on avoiding these things. We know wealth doesn’t create sustained happiness. In fact, some of the happiest people live in poorer countries such as Brazil, Costa Rica, and Panama. Achievement, fame, power, and material things don’t foster ongoing happiness.

So how do you become a happy person?

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Vulnerability: The Secret To Close Relationships

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Once when I was feeling particularly stressed and overwhelmed, my sister said to me, “Just fall back and let the universe catch you.”

When she said that, a feeling of peace washed over me. How lovely it would be to simply let go and feel completely safe, knowing that everything would be OK. That I was OK. The thought gave me a few moments of respite from my worries. I was free from the pain and pretense of trying to control everything.

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How To Apologize Sincerely

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Sincerely apologizing is an advanced emotional skill.

It requires doing something most of us find extremely difficult — getting past the ego self.

The thought process leading to an apology is complex and involves pushing past many internal barriers. We must honestly examine ourselves, our behavior or words, the motivation behind the behavior or words, and the feelings of those we’ve injured or offended.

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72 Uplifting Quotes To Empower Your Day

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Do you enjoy uplifting quotes to motivate you?

Words have incredible power over us.

Your day can begin under a dark cloud. You might feel tired, stressed, or unhappy for some reason. Then someone says one kind word, and the clouds lift. Your motivation and energy seep back in, and you feel uplifted and light again.

Simple letters and words composed in just the right order can change how we think, how we feel, and how we act. They move us, inspire us, and empower us to take action, make positive changes in our lives, and even boost confidence and self-esteem.

One of the best ways to immediately improve your mood and motivate yourself is by reading powerful, inspiring words and applying the concepts and insights to your own life.

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20 Things Confident People Never Do

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Her heart was pounding.

A dozen pairs of eyes were staring her way.

The only thing between her and complete nakedness was a thin robe. And she was about to drop the robe, step up on a platform, and stand before all of these people without a stitch of clothing.

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How To Rekindle Your Relationship And Fall In Love Again

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Stop reading for a moment, and think back to the first few weeks after you met your spouse or love partner.

Actually, try to visualize an early date where you were cuckoo for CoCo Puffs about this amazing person. And they felt the same about you.

Remember how it felt falling in love, how happily distracted you were, how you couldn’t wait to see her — how everything he said was interesting and funny.

Remember how you felt the two of you were special? Meant for each other. Destined to be together.

And now . . . not so much.

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How To Be Beautiful

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“Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.” ~Kahlil Gibran

When I was in high school, I had a friend who was not beautiful or even particularly pretty, but she was very popular.

Both girls and guys liked her, she had a steady boyfriend, and she was always hanging out with the most popular crowd. And she was genuinely nice to everyone.

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4 Personal Decisions For Lasting Change

Change Your Life

Once upon a time, I was one of those people who thought I could ruminate or think my way out of a problem or toward a change in life.

I spent a lot of time in my head considering what I did and didn’t want for my life and how I wanted to make positive change. I journaled my thoughts and dreams. I read dozens of self-help, healthy living, and spiritual growth books.

And I sincerely hoped everything I absorbed by thinking and reading would somehow change my life for the better.

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