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17 Heartbreaking Signs Your Husband Hates You

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Going into marriage, you knew the romantic feelings between you would be stronger at some times than others.

You didn’t expect his romantic feelings toward you to die completely, much less give way to indifference or hostility.

Maybe you don’t feel it every time he’s around.

More and more, though, he leaves you with a heaviness on your heart and a growing conviction: “My husband hates me.”

You’re confused and hurt.

Part of you still hopes you’re reading too much into his behavior.

But if you’re reading this post, the red flags described below can help clear the fog.

22 Of The Best Apps For Couples in 2023

by Barrie Davenport

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Can an app bring you and your significant other closer together?

It could. At the very least, it can help keep you on the same page.

It might even improve the way you communicate with each other.

Some can even rekindle the romance between you while encouraging more supportive habits and a healthier approach to conflicts.

But what are the best apps for couples?

And which couples apps are the best fit for your relationship?

9 Core Differences Between Love And Being In Love

by Barrie Davenport

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The difference between love and in love comes down to attraction — romantic, sexual, or both.

When you’re both craving physical intimacy with each other, the feeling is indescribable. Words can’t do it justice.

But not everyone feels that. Not everyone can.

So, it’s essential to understand what love is apart from the romance and passion.

If you’re like most people, you want it all (and no judgment here).

But love without attraction isn’t the same as “settling.”

And being “in love” is a difficult high to maintain.

Better to focus on love. But what does that look like?

Are You A Personality Type That Holds A Grudge?

by Barrie Davenport

How long can a person hold a grudge? And why are some folks more likely to hold them?

You’ve noticed the difference in how some people you know deal with their anger.

Some are more likely to get even — others more likely to steep themselves in their anger and quietly burn with resentment.

Some personalities are more passionate than others who are more private.

But which personalities are most prone to holding grudges in a relationship?

How To Cope With A Lack Of Empathy From Your Partner or Spouse

by Barrie Davenport

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A lack of empathy is one of the defining characteristics of low emotional intelligence.

To have empathy, you must put yourself in another person's shoes — to feel what they are feeling and seek to understand their perspective.

You must step outside of your own needs and feelings to be present and engaged with someone else.

Empathy calls for patience, active listening, intimacy, and selflessness.

It requires a generous and giving spirit and a true desire to sit with someone in their most difficult moments or share in their most joyous accomplishments.

Some people are naturally empathetic, but people who lack empathy can learn and reinforce the skills of empathy and compassion.

To do that, we must recognize its value not only in our relationships but also in our personal growth.

Practicing empathy expands our understanding of ourselves and others.

It connects us to the human condition — the suffering, the joys, the sorrows, and the longings we all share. It draws us closer to the people around us and frees us to be vulnerable and authentic with them.