13 Gracious Ways to Respond to a Compliment Without Sounding Icky + Examples

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Isn’t it strange how hard it is to respond to a compliment?

We squirm and deflect and awkwardly shuffle our feet in the face of such overt niceness.

Social anxiety, burnout, and social media facades can cripple our self-esteem, so we don't know how to genuinely accept a compliment. 

Despite all the research showing positive feedback can keep employees (and all of us) more motivated and help our mental health, our brain still has this nagging habit of shutting down when we are given positive reinforcement. 

For just a few moments, let's quiet our inner critics and learn how to reply to compliments with poise and confidence.

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Do You Have A Bad Attitude? 17 Signs You Do And How To Change It

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Do you have a bad attitude? I mean, how can you tell, really?

One person’s bad attitude is another’s comic relief, right? 

Turns out, not so much. 

You’re just getting a reputation for being one of those people with attitude. And it’s never a compliment. At some point, even your friends stop pretending you’re funny. 

So, you want to know, what is a bad attitude? And if you have one, where did it come from? And what can you do to change it?

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51 Soul Quotes That Have Touched My Life

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“In quoting others, we cite ourselves.”~ Julio Cortázar

You may notice that I often begin my posts with life quotes.

I do this because it sets the tone for the message I'm hoping to share.

And because there are so many eloquent writers who express an idea far more elegantly than I am able to do.

Quotes are bite-sized nuggets of wisdom and inspiration that, in this age of information overload, provide a moment's peaceful respite and reflection.

A well-timed quote can unlock doorways in our hearts and minds, providing just what we need to know at the moment we read it.

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What A Bald-Faced Lie! 11 Things To Do When Someone Lies To You, But You Know The Truth

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Every single human adult on the planet lies.

Some would even argue that living a lie-free life is impossible.

We lie to spare feelings and avoid conflict, and sometimes, in complex situations, fibbing is the lesser of two evils.

But being lied to by someone you love about something important often crosses the ethical Rubicon.

When a friend lies to you, it hurts.

When a lover lies to you, it can downright burn.

So today, we're looking at what to do when someone in your life lies right to your face.

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What Is Respect And Why Is It Important?

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Why is respect so important?

What is respect exactly?

Is it about whether or not your kids obey your every rule?

Maybe you think of how you were treated by an authority figure who cared more about his rules than your needs or feelings.

It's likely been painfully obvious to you if you've experienced a lack of respect in your personal or professional life.

Sometimes it's easier to know when you've been disrespected than to capture what respect is.

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