201 Put a Finger Down Questions for Couples and Friends to Create Bonding Moments

Ever played ‘Never Have I Ever' and thought, ‘This game needs a makeover?' 

Well, we've got your back! 

Dive into the world of ‘Put a Finger Down' with our tantalizing list of 201 questions. 

Perfect for couples craving a heart-to-heart or friends itching for a few giggles. 

Whether you're on a cozy date night, chilling at a weekend sleepover, or just lounging with your partner, these questions promise endless fun. 

Ready for some playful revelations?

Let the finger-folding extravaganza begin!

What Is the ‘Put a Finger Down' Challenge?

We've all had our fair share of fun with the classic ‘Never Have I Ever' game, but there's a modern twist on the block that's taking social media by storm: the ‘Put a Finger Down' challenge! 

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Originating on platforms like TikTok, this game is all about fessing up to quirky, funny, or sometimes cringe-worthy experiences.

So, how do you jump into this new wave of fun?

Instructions to Play:

1. Gather Around: Whether you're with friends, family, or your significant other, get everyone in a circle or on a video call.

2. Start with All Fingers Up: Everyone begins by holding up ten fingers.

3. Ask Away: Players take turns reading out statements. For example, “Put a finger down if you've ever danced in the rain.”

4. React: If the statement applies to you, put one finger down. If it doesn't, keep that finger up!

5. Reveal and Laugh: The game continues until someone has all fingers down or you've exhausted your list of statements. The fun is in the revelations and the shared (or unique) experiences among the group!

Dive in and prepare for some entertaining and enlightening moments!

201 Put a Finger Down Questions

Dive into this treasure trove of questions designed to ignite laughter, evoke memories, and spark conversations.

Perfect for any gathering, these prompts will challenge, entertain, and reveal the unexpected about everyone in the room! Ready to play?

Put a Finger Down Questions for Couples

Spice up your date night or weekend chill session with these tailored questions.

You might also like my bestselling book: 201 Relationship Questions: The Couple's Guide to Building Trust and Emotional Intimacy

Whether you're in a new relationship or have been together for years, these prompts are bound to unveil some fun and unexpected facets about each other!

1. Put a finger down if you've ever forgotten our anniversary.

2. Put a finger down if you've ever secretly eaten the last piece of dessert.

3. Put a finger down if you've ever re-gifted something I gave you.

4. Put a finger down if you've ever thought my friend was attractive.

5. Put a finger down if you've snooped through my phone.

6. Put a finger down if you've ever lied about how a meal I cooked tasted.

7. Put a finger down if you've ever dreamt about me.

8. Put a finger down if you've ever faked being sick to avoid a date night.

9. Put a finger down if you've ever been jealous of someone hitting on me.

10. Put a finger down if you've ever worn my clothes without asking.

11. Put a finger down if you've forgotten my parent's names.

12. Put a finger down if you've ever gone to bed mad at me.

13. Put a finger down if you've ever secretly watched a show without me when we were binge-watching together.

14. Put a finger down if you've ever dropped food on the floor and still served it to me.

15. Put a finger down if you've ever practiced proposing to me.

16. Put a finger down if you've ever forgotten where our first date was.

17. Put a finger down if you've ever saved me as a funny contact name in your phone.

18. Put a finger down if you've ever lied about your past relationships.

19. Put a finger down if you've ever forgotten my birthday.

20. Put a finger down if you've pretended to listen to me but were actually thinking of something else.

21. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to surprise me, and it went horribly wrong.

22. Put a finger down if you've ever compared our relationship to a celebrity couple's.

23. Put a finger down if you've ever made a purchase without telling me.

24. Put a finger down if you've ever practiced our future child's name.

25. Put a finger down if you've ever thought about breaking up with me.

26. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to like a gift I gave you.

27. Put a finger down if you've ever Googled advice on our relationship.

28. Put a finger down if you've ever considered getting a tattoo of my name.

29. Put a finger down if you've ever accidentally called me by an ex's name.

30. Put a finger down if you've ever kept a silly memento from our early dating days.

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31. Put a finger down if you've ever felt butterflies just by thinking of me.

32. Put a finger down if you've ever lost something I lent you.

33. Put a finger down if you've ever lied about your whereabouts to plan a surprise for me.

34. Put a finger down if you've ever replayed our first kiss in your mind.

35. Put a finger down if you've ever cried while thinking about us.

36. Put a finger down if you've ever created a secret handshake or gesture just for us.

37. Put a finger down if you've ever doubted my cooking skills.

38. Put a finger down if you've ever made a playlist thinking of me.

39. Put a finger down if you've ever imagined our wedding day.

40. Put a finger down if you've ever looked at old pictures of us and felt nostalgic.

41. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to impress my friends or family.

42. Put a finger down if you've ever felt proud introducing me to others.

43. Put a finger down if you've ever thought I was out of your league.

44. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to learn something just because I liked it.

45. Put a finger down if you've ever Googled a topic just to keep up with a conversation with me.

46. Put a finger down if you've ever secretly planned our future vacations.

47. Put a finger down if you've ever written a letter or note to me and never gave it.

48. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to mimic my voice or mannerisms.

49. Put a finger down if you've ever danced in the living room thinking of our moments.

50. Put a finger down if you've ever made a wish about us while seeing a shooting star.

Put a Finger Down Questions for Friends

Friends, it's your turn! How well do you really know each other? Time to bring out the memories, the laughs, and the “did you really do that?” moments. Challenge your pals with these intriguing questions:

51. Put a finger down if you've ever crashed a wedding or party.

52. Put a finger down if you've ever traveled solo.

53. Put a finger down if you've ever had a crush on a friend's sibling.

54. Put a finger down if you've ever ghosted someone.

55. Put a finger down if you've ever lied about your age to get a discount.

56. Put a finger down if you've ever stayed awake for more than 24 hours.

57. Put a finger down if you've ever accidentally sent a message about someone to that very person.

58. Put a finger down if you've ever faked an accent to impress someone.

59. Put a finger down if you've ever danced on a table.

60. Put a finger down if you've ever taken food out of the trash and eaten it.

61. Put a finger down if you've ever Googled yourself.

62. Put a finger down if you've ever cried watching an animated movie.

63. Put a finger down if you've ever broken something at a friend's house and didn't tell them.

64. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to be sick to get out of a plan.

65. Put a finger down if you've ever lost your friend's belongings.

66. Put a finger down if you've ever locked yourself out of your own house.

67. Put a finger down if you've ever had an online argument with a stranger.

68. Put a finger down if you've ever lied about having plans just to stay at home.

69. Put a finger down if you've ever stalked a friend's crush online.

70. Put a finger down if you've ever been kicked out of a public place.

71. Put a finger down if you've ever been lost in a foreign country.

72. Put a finger down if you've ever regifted a present you received.

73. Put a finger down if you've ever fallen asleep in a cinema.

74. Put a finger down if you've ever taken more free samples than allowed.

75. Put a finger down if you've ever forgotten a friend's birthday.

76. Put a finger down if you've ever done karaoke and regretted the song choice.

77. Put a finger down if you've ever believed in a ridiculous urban legend.

78. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to start a viral dance challenge.

79. Put a finger down if you've ever accidentally worn two different shoes out.

80. Put a finger down if you've ever sleep-talked or sleepwalked.

81. Put a finger down if you've ever been on a disastrous blind date.

82. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to cut your own hair and failed.

83. Put a finger down if you've ever believed a fake news story.

84. Put a finger down if you've ever sneaked into a VIP section.

85. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to like a song just because your friend did.

86. Put a finger down if you've ever had a wardrobe malfunction in public.

87. Put a finger down if you've ever “borrowed” a friend's clothes and never returned them.

88. Put a finger down if you've ever made up a story about how you got an injury.

89. Put a finger down if you've ever pulled an all-nighter studying but still forgot everything.

90. Put a finger down if you've ever had an embarrassing username or email.

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91. Put a finger down if you've ever believed the end of a friendship over a game of Monopoly.

92. Put a finger down if you've ever given someone a fake phone number.

93. Put a finger down if you've ever been obsessed with a boy/girl band.

94. Put a finger down if you've ever made a DIY project that was a total fail.

95. Put a finger down if you've ever tried a viral trend and regretted it.

96. Put a finger down if you've ever accidentally called your teacher “Mom” or “Dad.”

97. Put a finger down if you've ever taken a sneaky photo of someone in public.

98. Put a finger down if you've ever spilled a drink on someone at a party.

99. Put a finger down if you've ever forgotten where you parked your car.

100. Put a finger down if you've ever been caught re-gifting.

101. Put a finger down if you've ever lied in a game of “Truth or Dare.”

Put a Finger Down Questions: Juicy Edition

Ready to spill some tea? These juicy questions are bound to raise eyebrows, evoke secret smiles, or make you exclaim, “You did what now?!” Dive into the depths of the ‘Put a Finger Down' challenge with these tantalizing prompts:

102. Put a finger down if you've ever kissed someone you swore you'd never kiss.

103. Put a finger down if you've ever sent a flirty text to the wrong person.

104. Put a finger down if you've ever had a secret relationship.

105. Put a finger down if you've ever snooped in someone's bathroom cabinet.

106. Put a finger down if you've ever had a crush on your boss or teacher.

107. Put a finger down if you've ever been the subject of a rumor.

108. Put a finger down if you've ever lied to your best friend about who you were with.

109. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to be someone else online.

110. Put a finger down if you've ever cheated in a game or sport.

111. Put a finger down if you've ever had a crush on your best friend's partner.

112. Put a finger down if you've ever attended a party where you weren't invited.

113. Put a finger down if you've ever been caught in a lie by someone close to you.

114. Put a finger down if you've ever spread a rumor about someone.

115. Put a finger down if you've ever been caught doing something you shouldn't by the police.

116. Put a finger down if you've ever secretly read someone else's diary or journal.

117. Put a finger down if you've ever gone on a date just for the free food.

118. Put a finger down if you've ever ghosted someone after more than three dates.

119. Put a finger down if you've ever flirted with someone while being in a relationship.

120. Put a finger down if you've ever lied about your number of romantic partners.

121. Put a finger down if you've ever had a crush on someone much older or younger than you.

122. Put a finger down if you've ever lied about where you were to your parents.

123. Put a finger down if you've ever shoplifted, even if it was accidental.

124. Put a finger down if you've ever kissed two people on the same day.

125. Put a finger down if you've ever faked a reason to leave a date early.

126. Put a finger down if you've ever been caught cheating on a test or exam.

127. Put a finger down if you've ever slid into someone's DMs with a flirty message.

128. Put a finger down if you've ever received a gift from an admirer you didn't like.

129. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended not to know someone because it was easier.

130. Put a finger down if you've ever been involved in a love triangle.

131. Put a finger down if you've ever been on two dates in one day.

132. Put a finger down if you've ever used someone to make another person jealous.

133. Put a finger down if you've ever had an embarrassing moment in front of a crush.

134. Put a finger down if you've ever spied on an ex online.

135. Put a finger down if you've ever lied during a game of “Never Have I Ever.”

136. Put a finger down if you've ever been on a date with someone whose name you couldn't remember.

137. Put a finger down if you've ever been caught in an embarrassing situation by your family.

138. Put a finger down if you've ever lied about being related to someone famous.

139. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to be single when you weren't.

140. Put a finger down if you've ever been caught looking at someone suggestively.

141. Put a finger down if you've ever had feelings for someone you knew you shouldn't.

142. Put a finger down if you've ever danced on a bar or table at a club.

143. Put a finger down if you've ever been on a dating show.

144. Put a finger down if you've ever had an embarrassing username for an online dating profile.

145. Put a finger down if you've ever gone on a date just because you were bored.

146. Put a finger down if you've ever lied about why a relationship ended.

147. Put a finger down if you've ever hidden a tattoo or piercing from someone.

148. Put a finger down if you've ever regretted sending a message the moment you hit “send.”

149. Put a finger down if you've ever been blocked or blocked someone on social media after a breakup.

150. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to have a different job to impress someone.

151. Put a finger down if you've ever kept a major secret from your best friend.

Put a Finger Down Questions for Kids

Hey, kiddos! Ready to join in the fun? These questions are perfect for younger players, ensuring giggles, surprises, and probably a few “Oops!” moments. Ready to discover some hilarious kid-sized truths? Dive into these delightful questions:

152. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to catch a butterfly and failed.

153. Put a finger down if you've ever believed your toy came alive when you weren't looking.

154. Put a finger down if you've ever sneaked candy or a snack before dinner.

155. Put a finger down if you've ever made a fort using blankets.

156. Put a finger down if you've ever had an imaginary friend.

157. Put a finger down if you've ever been scared of the monster under your bed.

158. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended the floor was lava.

159. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to keep a bug as a pet.

160. Put a finger down if you've ever drawn on the walls when you weren't supposed to.

161. Put a finger down if you've ever blamed a sibling for something you did.

162. Put a finger down if you've ever been too scared to go on a rollercoaster.

163. Put a finger down if you've ever lost a shoe while playing outside.

164. Put a finger down if you've ever made a mud pie.

165. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to hide a bad report card.

166. Put a finger down if you've ever had a secret handshake with a friend.

167. Put a finger down if you've ever lost a toy and then found it in a weird place.

168. Put a finger down if you've ever thought animals could talk when humans aren't around.

169. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to be a superhero.

170. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to dig a hole to China.

171. Put a finger down if you've ever worn your clothes inside out by accident.

172. Put a finger down if you've ever believed you could fly.

173. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to catch a rainbow.

174. Put a finger down if you've ever worn two different socks on purpose.

175. Put a finger down if you've ever made up your own song.

176. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended the grocery cart was a race car.

177. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to build a treehouse.

178. Put a finger down if you've ever been scared of a shadow in your room.

179. Put a finger down if you've ever believed your pet had superpowers.

180. Put a finger down if you've ever made a wish on a star.

181. Put a finger down if you've ever traded lunches with a friend at school.

182. Put a finger down if you've ever stayed up all night on a sleepover.

183. Put a finger down if you've ever thought your teacher lived at school.

184. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to find the end of a rainbow.

185. Put a finger down if you've ever made a puppet show.

186. Put a finger down if you've ever believed in fairies.

187. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to jump as high as the moon.

188. Put a finger down if you've ever sneaked an extra bedtime story.

189. Put a finger down if you've ever built the tallest Lego tower you could.

190. Put a finger down if you've ever pretended to be an animal for a whole day.

191. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to make your own magic potion.

192. Put a finger down if you've ever believed clouds were made of cotton candy.

193. Put a finger down if you've ever danced in the rain.

194. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to hatch a store-bought egg.

195. Put a finger down if you've ever been scared after hearing a spooky story.

196. Put a finger down if you've ever had a silly nickname.

197. Put a finger down if you've ever believed chocolate milk came from brown cows.

198. Put a finger down if you've ever wanted to live in a zoo.

199. Put a finger down if you've ever talked to your toys.

200. Put a finger down if you've ever made a snow angel.

201. Put a finger down if you've ever tried to keep a snowball in the freezer.


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Fun Ways to Use These ‘Put a Finger Down' Questions

Who said there's only one way to play ‘Put a Finger Down'? Spice things up with these imaginative variations that are bound to keep everyone on their toes. From friendly get-togethers to family gatherings, there’s a twist for every occasion!

1. Truth or Dare Hybrid

This is a two-in-one game. Every time someone puts a finger down, they have to tell a short story or give context to their answer. If they refuse? They take on a dare!

2. Speed Round

Make it snappy! Read the questions at a rapid pace, and players have only a split second to decide. This quickfire round often leads to unexpected revelations and lots of laughs.

3. Charades Twist

Got an actor in your midst? For every question answered with a finger down, the player has to act out the scenario silently while others guess. It adds an element of interpretation and heaps of hilarity.

4. Story Time

Turn the game into a storytelling session. Whenever someone puts a finger down, they need to weave their experience into an ongoing narrative. The more outrageous the tales, the better!

5. Video Challenge

Get those cameras rolling! Record your session and share it on your favorite social media platform. It's a fun way to engage with friends online and see their responses.

6. Penalty Box

For the competitive souls! Introduce a small penalty for every finger put down – from singing a song to doing a silly dance. The aim is not to “punish” but to add an entertaining twist.

7. Progressive Party Play

Every time a participant puts down a set number of fingers (e.g., five), they move to a different room or area. Each area has its own theme or mini-game, adding layers of complexity and fun.

8. Costume Round

Dress the part! For every question, players don a related accessory or prop. By the end, you'll have an ensemble of amusing outfits.

Remember, the primary goal is to have fun. So mix, match, and modify these ideas to suit your group. The more personalized, the more memorable the game!

Final Thoughts

Whether you're sparking new conversations, deepening connections, or simply seeking a good laugh, these ‘Put a Finger Down' questions promise memorable moments. Dive in, get playful, and let the revelations and giggles flow!