He was charming, attractive, intelligent, funny, and kind. He knew just the right words to say to make you feel special.
He was the perfect guy for you — until he wasn't.
Until he became one of those controlling men.
It didn't happen right away.
At first, you thought he was being overly attentive and helpful. He just wanted the best for you.
He's a strong, decisive man who knows what he wants and says what he means.
But as time went by, the suggestions and friendly tips morphed into criticisms and demands.
The charm turned into manipulation, and his kindness hinged on your toeing the line.
It turns out your perfect guy is a control freak who demands that everything is his way or the highway.
You've witnessed the early signs of a controlling man.
He has an array of psychological tools at his disposal to ensure you do what he wants or suffer the consequences.
The consequences range from ultimatums, manipulation, and threats to shaming, blaming, and shutting you down.
