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11 Smart Ways to Turn the Tables on Him

How to Turn the Tables When He Pulls Away

Navigating a relationship sometimes feels like it should come with training and license for all the rough waters we face.

One of the hardest challenges is when smooth sailing suddenly turns into rough water, and you're left alone at the wheel.

The scariest rough water is when you feel your guy pulling away.

As panic sets in, you may wonder things like, “What went wrong?”, “Are we breaking up?” and “How can I fix this?”

When the tables turn in a relationship, and you feel the other person pulling away, the outcome largely depends on how well you maneuver through the problem.

Why Does He Treat Me Like An Option? 9 Heartbreaking Reasons

by Barrie Davenport

Feeling Like an Option in a Relationship

No one wants to feel like an option in their romantic relationship.

In an intimate relationship, feeling like you're an option, not a priority creates self-doubt and heartache.

When you care for someone, it is only natural to want to prioritize them in your life.

If they don't reciprocate, you to feel unwanted or unappreciated.

If someone treats you like an option, it’s hard to know what to do or how to react without seeming needy or controlling.

Before reacting, it helps to explore why you feel devalued and what you can do about it.

Spice Up Your Small Talk with These 75 Flirty Conversation Starters

by Barrie Davenport

Flirting should feel fun, playful, and a little bit thrilling – not stressful.

If those butterflies in your belly start to feel more anxious than excited when chatting up your crush, don’t sweat it.

We’ve all agonized over how to keep the flirty momentum going.

The good news?

You can now breeze right through those awkward silences or fizzling conversations with these effortlessly clever lines.

Forget cheesy pick-up lines – these conversation starters spark chemistry naturally, bringing out your charming confidence.

Yes, it’s finally time to transform those crush-induced nerves into frissons of flirtatious delight!

13 Ways To Respond to a Breakup Text and Maintain Your Dignity

by Barrie Davenport

Did your partner decide to be a scapegrace and break up via text?

You’re probably livid and ready to rake them through a heap of hot garbage.

But before unleashing the fury, step back and think about how going full Targaryen could ricochet on you.

In most cases, it’s best to let your cooler head prevail to maintain your dignity.

To ensure you come out on top and get a semblance of closure, we’ve outlined things to say when someone breaks up with you via text.

15 Steps to Stop Being a Narcissist

by Barrie Davenport

man upsetting frustrated woman how to stop being a narcissist

Narcissism is one of the most misused words in our socially and digitally connected world.

Someone confident and even cocky could be wrongly labeled a narcissist, while a covert narcissist could unknowingly lurk inside you.

A person can have narcissistic qualities without actually meeting the criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), one of the ten known personality disorders.

Overcoming narcissism or related traits isn't easy, but you're doing the right thing by researching it since it's not something that goes away on its own.