What Is An INFJ Door Slam?

Maybe you know an INFJ and have witnessed the phenomenon known as the INFJ Door Slam.

Or maybe you’re the door slamming INFJ who would like to better understand why you do what you do with people who’ve exhausted your compassion.

After all, cutting people off completely is not your go-to. It’s a last resort. It’s not something you enjoy doing to anyone, but when you reach that point, it becomes easy to walk away from the one who’s crossed the line. You can do it without hesitation – and without feeling anything but relief.

It’s not a zen thing. It’s the INFJ’s way to protect themselves from someone who has hurt them deeply — probably someone they thought or hoped they could trust.

But is it permanent?

And do all INFJ people do this?

Or more importantly, is there a way to open the door again?

And what would it take?

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27 Reasons To Be Thrilled You’re A Type B Personality

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When you think of Type A and Type B personalities, do you assume that people who are Type A are more successful and often in leadership roles while Type B people tend to stay more in the background?

Because our Type A friends are most often credited with all of the achievements in life (due to their ambition and organizational skills), we think that it’s time to bring to light the reasons why people with Type B personalities are great.

In fact, Type B's are just as likely to succeed in life as their high-strung counterparts — but for different reasons.

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What Is An Introvert And Am I One?

When you are at a party or at work, do you get noticed first by other people because you feel the need to take center stage?

Do you like to approach people you don't know and make small talk or learn something about where they come from?

Or, would you rather stay out of the limelight and limit your conversations to a few meaningful ones rather than talking about the weather or sports?

If you love being the center of attention or being with groups of people, that means you are eager for contact and like to make a lot of connections with others. You might be an extrovert.

However, if you would rather stay in the background a bit, then you may prefer solitude rather than being around a large crowd of people. You are probably an introvert.

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20 Personality Development Tips That Make You More Attractive

I always thought that people's personalities were something they were born with. A bit of nature and a bit of nurture and, well, there you have it.

I didn't actually consider the fact that people could change their personality later in life and develop it in certain ways that could eventually come naturally.

But, with the amount of competition we are living with these days to get the best job, the best spouse, and be friends with the best people, I did some research and learned that you actually can develop your personality past childhood.

While everyone has their own qualities and traits that make them unique, people still strive to improve themselves.

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