What Is A Free Spirit Personality?
What is a free spirit? And how do you tell a free-spirited person from one who is simply careless, thoughtless, or impulsive?
True free spirits get that a lot. Too many people assume that if you’re free-spirited, you’re an immature, flighty little airhead who leaves chaos in your wake and doesn’t care how their actions affect others.
The truth behind the free-spirited personality is completely different — and way more interesting.
What is a free spirit?
The free spirit has reached a level of maturity that frees them from the fear of not conforming to other people’s expectations.
Not only do they not feel compelled to do what others around them are doing (according to “established wisdom”), but they also don’t worry about the consequences of flouting those expectations.
How great is that, right? Now you know why the word ‘free” is in there.
But what are the signs of a free spirit?
- What is a free spirit?
- 7 Traits of a Free-Spirited Person
- 1. You think, act, and make decisions without needing approval.
- 2. You trust yourself and live fearlessly.
- 3. You’re authentic, bold, and spontaneous.
- 4. You’re not afraid to fight for what matters to you.
- 5. “You don’t speak the language of attachment.”
- 6. You see and appreciate the little things in life.
- 7. You find inspiration for your thoughts and actions in the everyday.
- How to Become a Free Spirit?
- Examples of Free-Spirited People
7 Traits of a Free-Spirited Person
Once you get acquainted with the 7 free spirit personality traits, you can decide whether you want to cultivate those traits in yourself. Because it’s possible.
1. You think, act, and make decisions without needing approval.
You don’t need others to tell you what you should do or how you should think. And you sure don’t need to ask anyone’s permission or get their approval before you make a decision.
Sure, some will think you act without thinking. Some will wonder why you don’t ask for advice before you make a decision that could affect you for the rest of your life.
It’s not as though you never ask for anyone’s advice, though. You just don’t feel the need to make that advice your guiding principle.
It only seems as though you acted without thinking because no one realizes how much thinking you put into it before you hit the “Yes” button. But sometimes, you just go with your gut.
If only the brain could keep up.
2. You trust yourself and live fearlessly.
You trust yourself, because you trust your gut — your intuition. You’ve learned to trust it, even when others asked you to put more (conscious) thought into it.
But you know, by now, that conscious thought is still putting its shoes on when intuition is crossing the finish line. And you’ve learned, from experience, to listen to that inner voice.
From an outside perspective, you’re acting without due discretion. But from your perspective, your intuition has taught you to live without fear and to go after what you want, regardless of what people think.
And you really don’t worry about what people think. If they choose to hold you in contempt for not doing what they would do, that’s their business.
You have better things to do with your time and energy than to dwell on the past.
3. You’re authentic, bold, and spontaneous.
You’re a deeply sincere person — no fakery in that sunlit mind of yours. There’s no room for pretense or for false bravado. You’re not out to impress anyone, anyway.
Those who know you trust your authenticity. They also know you’re full of surprises.
One minute you’re savoring a favorite meal or drink (more than most people enjoy their favorite things). And the next . . . who knows? You don’t even know.
When inspiration hits, and it feels right to you, you’re all in. And you don’t go halfway, either.
With that spontaneity comes a full measure of boldness and joy. You don’t apologize for the way you are, nor do you expect apologies from anyone else.
Life is too short and rich to waste time dwelling on pointless arguments.
4. You’re not afraid to fight for what matters to you.
You know what’s worth fighting for, and you’re not afraid to stick your neck out and fight for it — even at the risk of offending those who’d rather stay in their comfort zones.
You’ll spring into action to confront a bully, and you’ll lend your voice to strengthen someone else’s or to further a cause worth supporting.
If something matters to you, you’re not ashamed to let people know that, even if their preconceived notions prevent them from taking it seriously.
Your conviction and purposeful action make up for the silence of the majority.
And if you can get more people on the front lines with you — not by forcing but by inspiring them — so much the better.
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5. “You don’t speak the language of attachment.”
You can give the best of yourself to a relationship while feeling complete without one. You don’t need to be in an intimate relationship to feel whole or happy.
You don’t depend on others to feel loved or to feel that your life matters.
You know you are the way you are for a reason, and putting more good into the world matters more to you than whether you’ve got someone in your life who adores you.
Plenty of people will be attracted to you, because your free-spirited personality is magnetic and has a brightening effect on the world around you.
But you don’t need someone else’s admiration to know your worth.
6. You see and appreciate the little things in life.
You don’t overlook your blessings — from the smallest to the greatest — or take them for granted. You notice things that, to most others, are “just part of the scenery.”
Every little good thing in your life, every synchronicity, every small gift to your senses or to your intuition is something to savor and appreciate.
You wonder how so many people can fail to see the little things that make every day special to you. No day is perfect, but little things make for perfect moments.
And you’re predisposed to making the most of every one of them.
A perfect day, for you, doesn’t go according to a preconceived schedule or idea of what should happen and when. But it might begin with a chance to savor your morning and enjoy more of the good things already in it.
7. You find inspiration for your thoughts and actions in the everyday.
You’re good at thinking on your feet, because you find inspiration for your thoughts and actions literally everywhere you go.
Even cornered, you find a way out of the trap and into a better place than before.
Your native ingenuity comes out when you need it. As far as others are concerned, you pull the most unusual (and surprisingly effective) solutions out of your lungs with every breath.
Maybe you credit the universe for those ideas. Or maybe you think anyone could do as you do if they’d just stop letting fear get in the way. You know not everything you blurt out is inspired by the wisdom of the gods.
But enough of it makes other people wonder just what your secret is.
How to Become a Free Spirit?
Take the following actions to become the free-spirited person you’ve always wanted to be.
Find your reason for becoming a free spirit.
Make sure it’s a reason that connects with your core values and makes you feel 100% true to yourself. Make sure you’re doing this for you and not to become the person someone else wants you to be.
Be honest with yourself.
Stop telling yourself you need someone else’s love or attention in order to thrive or to be happy. Be honest about relationships that are limiting your growth, and be willing to break free of toxic people.
Connect with your inner wisdom.
The more connected you are to your intuition, and the more you trust it, the more you come to rely on it — and the less you feel the need to please other people in order to feel validated.
Move past the fear.
When you feel afraid to make a move, acknowledge the fear. Allow yourself to recognize the reason for it. Then tell your fear that it’s going to have to take a back seat from now on. Your unencumbered spirit is at the wheel.
Practice mindfulness on a daily basis.
Examples of Free-Spirited People
Here are some examples of free spirits — both real and fictional:
Are you are a free spirit?
Now that you know more about free spirit characteristics, can you think of someone in your life who models them for you?
Or are you a free spirit yourself?
Maybe you have some of the traits but want to strengthen those and cultivate the rest. You want to be more of a free spirit, and you’re ready to take on the action steps listed above.
You’re a free spirit at your core. You just need to remove some of the baggage that has held you back. And if you want to badly enough, you can and you will.
Just remember to develop your free spirit self in a way that respects your own personal path and core values. No one else can tell you how your life as a free spirit should look.
You know your soul better than most. Trust yourself.