Here's a tough question for you.
Are you likable?
Do people find it easy, energizing, and refreshing to be around you?
In my work as a coach, I've seen how people will unknowingly carry around the baggage of bad behaviors -- behaviors that hold them back from loving relationships, career growth, and simple life happiness. They don't realize they have infected themselves with habits that offend or even push people away.
Most of us do a few things to annoy people, especially in our close relationships. It's impossible to be human and not drift into occasional bad moods, childish reactions, or selfishness. (more…)