How Enjoying The Small Things Can Improve Your Life In A Big Way

Enjoying the Small Things

People naturally feel excited during big life events – weddings, newborn babies, first homes, job promotions, and so on – and I don’t mean to diminish their importance.

However, oftentimes when we reminisce, it is the seemingly small, everyday moments that have truly made up the fabric of our lives.

Kurt Vonnegut said, “Enjoy the little things in life because one day you’ll look back and realize they were the big things.”

Thinking only about the big things sometimes can be detrimental.

There is both outer and inner pressure connected to these kinds of grand achievements. Being under a lot of pressure will negatively affect your mental and physical health.

Feelings of anxiety, sleep difficulties, a compromised immune system, and unexplained aches and pains are not uncommon symptoms of being overly stressed out.

Always wanting more can also lead to a very unsatisfying life if left unchecked.

While goals and dreams are certainly beneficial, an insatiable desire to have more can leave you feeling like you are less than. Constantly striving to get further will cause you to feel as though you are falling behind.

This type of mindset takes the focus off of what you have or what you have done and puts it on a place of lack. However, a grateful heart will allow you to see the good in what is currently going on in your life.

The ability to appreciate the small things can upgrade your life in a big way. There is reason to celebrate and be grateful every day with just a slight shift in perspective.

Dr. Emiliana Simon-Thomas, who studies the science of gratitude from a background in neuroscience, says that gratitude is skill. This means anyone can begin to strengthen and flex their gratitude muscle.

Here are five simple ways enjoying the small things can make you more grateful:


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