Write It Out, Don’t Fight It Out: How To Use Letters To Heal Your Relationship

Does communicating with your partner sometimes feel impossible?

Do you wish you could just stop arguing and talk without defensiveness and hurt feelings?

Are there things you want to say or ask but feel too uncomfortable or embarrassed?

Sometimes communicating verbally can make a relationship issue worse rather than better, because things get too emotional or awkward.

You get wounded or angry. One of you stonewalls or walks away. You feel disrespected, unheard, and misunderstood.

You could try couple's therapy, but before you do, there's another way to communicate that's free, easy, and potentially life-changing for your relationship — writing letters.

When talking breaks down or gets testy, writing letters to each other is a highly effective way to communicate in your love relationship or marriage.

That's why I've written my latest book, Write It Out, Don’t Fight It Out: How to Use Letters to Heal Your Relationship When Talking Gets Tough.

I have written this book for couples who want to communicate better and develop a deeper connection, but find that talking frequently breaks down — especially during conflict.

It's also for those who feel uncomfortable verbally stating their needs, sharing their feelings, or talking about uncomfortable topics.

Letter writing allows you to slow down, consider your words, and articulate them in the spirit of love and kindness, even with the most difficult and painful situations.

Writing your feelings and needs in a thoughtful way also sets the tone for healthier dialogue, as you can bypass hurtful words and angry reactions.

You can use a letter to initiate a verbal discussion on a sensitive topic (like sex or money) without the intense emotions that can arise with face-to-face conversation.

In Write It Out, Don't Fight It Out, you'll discover:

  • Why letters work and when to use them
  • Why conflict is valuable and common areas of conflict
  • 4 communication killers that make talking impossible
  • How great letters lead to better conversations
  • What to do if one partner doesn't participate
  • 82 letter writing templates for 21 common relationship topics

With these empowering letter writing templates, you'll have the phrases and words you need at your fingertips, so you can communicate in a healthy, healing way. You'll know exactly what to say in the situations that make talking tough for both of you.

Here is the download link for the book: http://liveboldandbloom.com/writeit-book

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